The definition of a hater is: a person that simply cannot be happy for another person's success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person. We all dealt with haters one time in our lives. Haters can probably be the most annoying people that you can probably know. Whether it's in school, work, or even at home; there will always be haters. There are many ways with dealing with haters, but we're only gonna talk about a few ways. But before dealing with haters, you first have to understand the hater mentality. So without further ado, let's being.
Haters have the mentality of putting you down, and making sure you don't succeed in life. They'll do this by pointing out your flaws and saying you can't do certain things. Understand this about haters; they're jealous and envious of you. They can see that you will succeed in your life. So they will do as much as they can to see you not succeed. Okay, now that you know the mentality and viewpoint of haters, let's look at a few ways to deal it haters.
There are probably several different ways to deal with haters, but for this blog we're gonna show a few.
1. Think of them as your entourage:
Now that probably sounds stupid to some people, but that actually works. Just think about it for a moment. Haters will try to make you look bad and say you can't do certain things. They gotta find out things about you. In a way they're you entourage; your followers (like Twitter... that was a corny joke). They need that information to take you down a step. And they'll get it from anyone. Whether its you or your friends. Your little entourage of haters are gonna be happy (sarcastic).
2. Tell them to back off... in this case tell them to GET OFF YOUR DICK!!!:
This one is plain and simple. Just tell them to back off (or to get off your dick). As I said in the beginning, they're there to make your life a living hell, and to take you down a step. This would probably have two outcomes. The first outcome will be that they'll leave you alone. Good for you!!!! The second outcome will be that they'll get angry and continue to hate on you (even more), or worse (a fight). Its your choice to use this one, since there are two different outcomes that can happen.
3. Ignore them (sorry no video for this one): If you choose this one over the other two, then this one will be plain and simple as well. Ignoring them will show that your being the more mature person, and they'll look bad in front of everyone. There's some satisfaction right there. Congratulations, YOU WIN!!!!!
Moral of the story, haters are gonna hate. The way you deal with them are up to you. Also remember to understand and see the viewpoint of your hater. As Keri Hilson said: "Get yourself together, don't hate (never do it); jealously is the ugliest trait (don't, never do it)." I want to give a special thanks to my friend Regina F. for helping me with this blog. This blog took me the longest, and it probably would of took longer if it wasn't for her. This is Chris Alford, and that is what I have to say!!! Leave a comment on here. I want to hear y'all opinions on this.
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